"What Chinese Girls Want" is my new column about dating from the perspective of Chinese women. I welcome comments and stories from other Chinese ladies looking for love in Beijing.



On sites like Facebook I've been hearing a lot about what Western men want in Chinese women, but not a lot about what Chinese women want in Western men, so I thought I'd compile an easy to read list for all of you wankers out there.

Take the test below and see how many qualities you have that Chinese women DO or DON'T want in a man. And girls, maybe you should pass this test out to your girlfriends who are dating losers!

1.
WE DO WANT

men who are open-minded enough to appreciate the difference of cultures and are ok with when things being done the Chinese way.

WE DON'T WANT

men who want things done only in their way and always have a lecture ready that begins with "in the West" anytime ready for anyone.

2.
WE DO WANT

Men who enjoy sex with us and interact with us.

WE DON'T WANT

Men who make us do what their Western girlfriends didn't want to do to them.

3.
WE DO WANT

men who enjoy going out and meeting new people.

WE DON'T WANT

men who put a hand on a girl's butt, get slapped and scream: "I just wanna have some fun".

4.
WE DO WANT

men who are trying to learn a bit of our language and have the interest in communicating with Chinese people in Chinese.

WE DON'T WANT

men who say: "It's 21st century! How about learning some English? "

5.
WE DO WANT

men who come to China because they want to see China or start their own business here.

WE DON'T WANT

men who come to China to get away from all the pressure back home and complain about the air, the people and the "dysfunction here" every second.

6.
WE DO WANT

men who are getting to know some Chinese people and hang out with them.

WE DON'T WANT

men who hide in the expat community, panic the second they are out of the embassy district, never have Chinese friends except colleagues and still make all kinds of remarks about Chinese people.

7.
WE DO WANT

men who know their way around China when they need to go to the bank, book flight tickets or negotiate with their landlords.

WE DON'T WANT

men who use their girlfriends as free interpreter to take everywhere.

8.
WE DO WANT

men who have hobbies other than watching DVD and shooting pool and have at least one artistic way to express themselves.

WE DON'T WANT

men who don't know what they are doing with their lives and plan to teach English for money for 40 years here and sleep with a lot of women.

9.
WE DO WANT

Men who have investment plans

WE DON'T WANT

Men who spend all their money on booze or drugs because "in this country, being white is my financial security".

10.
WE DO WANT

Men who have a little knowledge about Chinese history.

WE DON'T WANT

Men who say shit like: "get over yourself" when we demand an apology from Japan (again I have to say I have absolutely nothing against Japan but everything against war).

11.
WE DO WANT

men who work out and take good care of their bodies.

WE DON'T WANT

obese men who say: "only women get fat; men are just...men."

Mia @ 12:22 | .(2068) |